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"Thank you so much for this healing process. The exercise we did
today was so powerful and I feel so empowered. You are so gifted
and I know that with all my experiences I too will make a difference
in someone's healing. I can feel the energy shifting within me. You
are a blessing. I am ready for this...I am done with surviving and I
am ready to LIVE!!!!
2010 is the Year of You Can! …. Live in Heaven on Earth!
The Present Living in
the now, full version in multiple formats to the right include; the
guided transformational healing of how to let go of the
painful past so you can be in the joyful moment where you are in
complete control to create the magnificent magical future you
desire; as well as other exercises and applications to live in the
present moment.
Lean How by reading more below
You
can Start Now with living in the Present moment. Let go of the Past
which keeps you tethered to those people, places, things and or
experiences you no longer have any control over so you can create a
joyous present existence, as well as the Future You Desire! You
deserve it!
The Present Living in the Now
is Number 1 of the of the
13 Steps or Life Altering choices
to effective change, to Ascend here and now where you can live in your own unique heaven
on earth by getting out of the
R.U.T. you are stuck in.
The Higher Understanding
Choice of Love is: To live in the presence of the gift of the now.
The Lower
Understanding Choice of Fear: is to stay stuck in the painful past or
paralyzed in being able to move into the future.
The Present Living in the Now is the
natural order of creation. If you are stuck in the painful past
or fearful of the unknown future you are not engaged in the
appropriate energetics to manifest what you desire now because you are
out of order, you are not present in the moment.
In relationship to The Present; living in the
now you will be coached in
How to let go of the painful past so you can be in the joyful moment
where you are in complete control to create the magnificent
magical future you desire.
In order to reconnect
and activate the natural Universal order of all things it is most important to
get present. The only way to get and be present is to let
go of your tormenting thoughts of the past; as well as move beyond
the fear of what lies ahead in the future. For
as long as your thoughts and feelings are focused on the past, or
projected into the future, you are out of step with the natural
order of all things.
The past is the past there is no way to
change what has been despite how much thought and emotional energy
you give it. Your future is dependent on what you do in the moment.
You can live by victimized default, believing you are a victim of
circumstances; where you recreate the same unending, unchanging
cycle over and over again where the future looks the same as the
past or you can heal by realizing you are indeed a very magnificent
empowered being and you do have the power as well as the
authority to change your focus into the present moment by
changing your understanding of what took place in the past. This in
turn will then change your attitude
towards your future. You will look at what is as well as what is to
come with out the interference of the burden of worrying about
recreating what was.
If
you continue to be obsessed with the past and/or the future, you will never get
out of the rut or unfulfilling joyless viscous cycle you are in.
Focusing on the pain of the past in thought, conscious or not, only generates more
negative feelings that will simply continue to fuel the fire of
creating nothing more than a repeat of the same old past experiences
in each and every present moment as well as your future to come.
Each of us has experienced some past situation
involving love, money, health, choices of where to live, employment
and others, that we spend far too much time revisiting in our
attempts to try to figure it all out; why it happened, what we might
have done to change it as well as what we might not have done that
would have resulted in a different outcome.
Continuing to focus on what was is ignoring what is. The problem
being your present what is….continues to be what was….lack of
something rather than abundance of all wonderful things. It is a
pointless mental and emotionally charged exercise in terms of
desiring change. You will only end up with more of what you don't
want...rather than what you desire.
You are presently cross wired with
the past and or the future based on the past. If you desire to
effect change than it is vitally important to connect the inner
wiring properly so that you can effect positive change in terms of
what you are thinking, feeling and doing in the present moment,
rather than being consumed with your head turned with what was or
being stuck in moving forward because you are terrified of more of
the same.
When you are cross
wired or have lose wires you are no different than a live wire that
has been struck by lighting. The wire is angrily bouncing all over
the place looking for where it properly belongs and for someone to
fix it, as it is doing so it threatens harm to self as well as to
all others in its immediate vicinity. Then you wonder why you are
alone and believe you are abandoned. Anyone in their right mind
knows better than to get close to a live randomly bouncing wire. You
are charged negatively and this is dangerous for your own well being
as well as for all others. You create hurtful situations and then
you feel bad and sad; as well as you feel shame and believe you are
guilty, which only leads to more self punishing manifestations.
One of the other ways you display cross wiring is by whining,
crying and complaining all the time to everyone and anyone who is
around you. This does not change the situation either, as you go
from one person to another repeating your sad story; as mother used
to say, you sound like a broken record or a stuck tape or a
scratched disc (depending on what generation you are part of).
Repeating the tale will not change the outcome of the story, it only
keeps the story repeating itself. Once again you will probably find
yourself alone and believing you are abandoned, as all people are
trying to heal in terms of being happy and fulfilled and are bored
with hearing it over and over again. This of course can lead you to
be angry with the rest of the people in your life and then you shift
into the live angry wire and the whole vicious cycle starts over
again.
One of the ways to get all that
negatively charged cross wiring into it’s proper order so that you
can let go of the past; is to get the proper guidance and coaching
to forgive, as well as the safe and loving facilitation to let go of
all those negative emotions. The order in which they are released in
a healthy manner, they are felt out rather than acted out. Someone
with wisdom and understanding on how to properly guide you to let go
and let God/Goddess. Someone adept at coaching many just like you.
Someone who understands first hand what you are experiencing.
Someone who has done what they are asking you to do.
Forgiveness is one way
of moving forward, it is a very
powerful tool. If you are stuck in non forgiveness for what ever it
is you perceive someone or something has done to you, you will
continue to live in that moment of time. You are stuck there because
that is where your focus is. You are continually consumed with
thoughts of what they or what you could have done, what they/you did
as well as what they/you did not do to effect a different outcome.
These relentless self doubting thoughts trigger the emotional body
in an unhealthy way; meaning you have negative feelings associated with
the thoughts. You feel sad, depressed and or angry, resentful or
enraged. I could go on defining the feelings, but it is more
important only to know in this moment; whether you feel good or you
feel bad. It really boils down to just that. If you do not feel good
about a situation in the past then it is time to forgive.
Forgiveness is one of the most
important exercises that will set you free from what was and can not
be changed other than your understanding and attitude about it.
Your ego; which has a
need to be justified in its victimization will definitely challenge
this choice, as it has been doing in other moments where you had the
slightest inkling that you just might want to let it go; whatever it
is.
Your ego is engaged in ongoing
manipulation demanding to win, with a justifiable argument of how
you were right and they were wrong.
What you need to consider is
this; “Would you rather be right or would you rather be happy. What
is more important. I say be happy, because being right may satiate
an insatiable ego for a moments time, but being right will never
bring about an open heart and long lasting peace of mind. Being
right over being happy simply keeps the vicious cycle going. Your
perceived "Win" is only enjoyed temporarily; as
sooner or later that doubt will arise again, causing you to revisit
the whole situation over and over with the thoughts of what did I or
they do that we shouldn’t have and/or what did they/I do that we
should have. Then those self doubting thoughts continue to rule
your life, the emotions kick in and you feel bad again and over and
over again.
So Forgiveness is a priority for letting go
of the past.
Forgiving them for what you think they did to you and more
importantly forgiving yourself for the incorrect belief that you
should have been smarter than that to begin with.
And even
though you think you have surrendered to the highest good for you
and all others and say you forgive, the ego still seems to kick in
and take control. A good coaching facilitator will be able to catch
this when you are being threatened by the ego's insatiable appetite
to have control over your life.
You are a magnificent
child of God/Goddess with great intelligence of the higher mind. I
offer some practical coaching techniques you can use immediately in
multiple formats of guided techniques.
I know the mastery of the ego and
its ability to manipulate, coerce and down right trick you into
believing you are accomplishing your desired goal, while all the time
just leading you down the prim rose path to get pounded once again.
The guided processes are done in person, over the phone or in audio
format so that you are facilitated adeptly by someone who knows the
dance of the demon that resides within all of us and all of its
multiple disguises. Being
properly coached and facilitated will get you through the entire process, as
opposed to falling short of the final resolve by thinking it all out
rather than feeling it all out. There is a big difference with
thinking you are angry with that of actually finally feeling and
ultimately
releasing the rage.
In my many years of experience as a
facilitator I have seen that everyone gets stuck when it comes to
the emotional body. They get the higher understanding, yet they
usually don't move forward into real change until they express the
oppressed negative emotions.
This is where the one on one
guidance is extremely effective and most needed. A mentor is good to
give you an understanding, but a coach can supply you with the day
to day practice that is necessary to truly make a change in your
life.
In the one on one guidance as well as the audio guided
instruction for
living in the present as well as for
how to forgive; you are navigated through your issues that keep
you from being able to live in the now, and will provide you with a safe loving
environment to release the frustration, the grief, the anger, and
the rage without fear of negative consequence and/or punishment.
We
all suppress our emotions because we have suffered from
expressing them in the past. If you were fearfully conditioned as a
child to not express your anger, especially towards mommy and daddy,
then you will resort to that old behavior even as an adult. There
are many who also suffered terribly from expressing their joy. They
weren't permitted to be happy. Either way, the painful memory of
punishment encoded in the cells will surface for you each time you
begin to speak your truth and you will stuff it back in where it
continues to be a catalyst to more pain. The one on one guidance
will free you from your fear of being you, and return you to the
love of self where you are free to express in a healthy manner,
whatever you are feeling in the moment you are feeling it. Learning
how to allow
the emotions to express when they first surface will keep you from
having to revisit the past over and over again. It will keep you
from bringing your past into the present and thusly it will also
free up your future from being jeopardized by the unresolved past.
Personal Guided Coaching Facilitation for Living in The Present
Personal Guided
Coaching Facilitation for
Forgiveness
Letting go of the past in these ways will
free you up to live in the now, the present moment.
The past is but a memory
The future is but a dream yet unrealized
The Now is the Gift...that is why it is
called the "Present"!
Realizing your gift of the
present moment and being free from the pain of the past as well as
liberated from the fear of the future; empowers you to
make the most of each and every moment. You will begin each day
excited about the new adventure about to unfold. You will be filled with
gratitude for what is. Upon opening your eyes, you will scan the room
intentionally focusing on all the many things already in your life
that you are thankful for.
Think about for a moment how you currently start your day….Pretty
scary huh!
Now, Imagine
starting your day with being grateful for being alive. For being
grateful for having another day where exciting fun filled adventure
will unfold right before your awestruck eyes where magic and
miracles are occurring in
every moment.
Imagine expanding beyond to the things outside of yourself that you
have already created. Thanking yourself for the warm, soft bed that
provides a safe, comfortable place for you to sleep soundly. Thanking
yourself for your bedroom, your home.etc.
Imagine your day beginning like this, as opposed to how it has begun
for far too long. Like, waking up with chronic pain, due to stress
created by fear; where you dread even getting out of bed, not to
mention what fearfully lies ahead. Remember how unpleasant it feels
to not have what you desire all the time, the lack of a good,
honest, healthy, respectful, loving relationship…the lack of money
to not only pay your bills, but to do the things that are fun and
adventurous, not to mention to buy the things that you like and or
love for yourself and others.
Ok…that’s enough of those
thoughts, you have already focused on them to last you many
lifetimes.
Imagine your day
beginning with thoughts that inspire and encourage you to continue to get up
with enthusiasm and excitement so you can move about in your
brand new day, with a healthy strong body, that has nothing to do with the past. You are only
engaged in happy thoughts and joyous feeling in the moment and throughout
your entire day where you continually find one thing after another to be
grateful for and excited about.
Get
the help you need now to change your imagination into your everyday
reality to assist you in shifting
your understanding your attitude and your emotions, which are
all equal components in manifesting what you truly desire. You can
make those dreams come true because your negative thinking behavior
has changed to a positive loving focus and as such you will find
your future as it unfolds in the moment is far more satisfying
peaceful, loving and you trust yourself to make any and all
decisions big and small.
Imagine you are the master of your life because you are present,
where you are a conscious co-creator having the absolute and direct
influence in all of your life because you have chosen to be present
and are living in the now.
This is the end of Step 1, part 1 the understanding of
The Present, Living in the now.
You can proceed to the Reconnection and activation of living
in the presence of the gift of the now so that you can
disentangle and disengage from the cross wiring of the incorrect
belief that you are stuck in the
painful past where you are paralyzed from moving forward into the
future you desire.
This is where you take the self responsibility with guided
facilitated coaching to implement the higher understanding to
realize, acknowledge, accept and activate the The Present Living in
the Now.
You can choose from the audio, video and or
personal one to one faciltation below.
Start Now with living in the Present moment
Personal Guided Coaching Facilitation for Living in The Present
Personal Guided
Coaching Facilitation for
Forgiveness
Audio Coaching Full Version Program
Download $14.95
Audio Full Version CD $19.95
Video/Audio
Full Version DVD $24.94
Step 2, The Value of the Gift of Life
Change your life in 15 minutes a day the
everyday practice to be used in combination with the 13 Steps of
reprogramming reconnection exercises $9.95
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